Condolences Card Message Ideas

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If you’ve lost someone close to you, it’s hard finding the right words to say to offer support to loved ones. Condolence cards are an opportunity to show you care whilst offering thoughts and prayers to the grieving person. We’ve put together some condolences card message ideas to help you write meaningful and heartfelt condolences.

Loss of a husband, wife, or partner:

Losing a spouse or partner can leave a void in the lives of their other halves. Whilst a small gesture, a sympathy message helps to remind the recently bereaved, that they are loved and supported. Here are some examples of messages you could write to provide them with peace and comfort.

Loss of a friend:

Offering heartfelt sympathy when someone loses a close friend can help to bring comfort and peace to them at an emotional time. If you are stuck for words, the below ideas might give you an idea of the kind of messages you could write in a condolence card.

Loss of a parent:

To lose a parent is something that has a profound impact on anyone. If you know someone who has recently lost their parent, these are some messages you could consider using in a condolence card.

Looking for support through bereavement?

Whilst the grieving process is unique to each person, it can be reassuring to find information on how to process losing a loved one. We’ve collated trusted advice from professionals to help you with grief and bereavement, which you can view by clicking here.

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